IIM student committed sucide

guys this a copied article from Facebook just to share with the world, tell me guys what love mean to today's generation?


 Malini Murmu, a bright student of IIM Banglore committed suicide after reading a facebook status of her boyfriend Abhishek Dhan. As per news channels the message was something like this,"Feeling super cool today. Dumped my new ex-girlfriend. Happy independence day.”


This disturbed her and she decided to take revenge by committing suicide.She wrote on the white board in room,“He ditched me. This is the best I can do to take revenge.”


It's really a sad news. A bright B.Tech student from KIIT,a good emloyee of Infosys who had joined a prestigious MBA course of IIMB ended her life in such tragic way.It's completely sad to see such a high IQ student,didn't had good EQ. She took very extreme step to teach her boyfriend,a lesson.


Is it really a Facebook which became reason of her death? or should we blame her boyfriend for her death? No, it's completely her fault as she could not deal with her emotional outbreak.She didn't even thought about her parents (who stay at Ranchi) before ending her life. Tragic and Stupid ....


Life style disorder,peer pressure, break-ups in life etc. are becoming new reasons for deaths of several youth in Metro cities.Recently, we saw the news of L & T employee from Thane who killed her wife and tried to show it as suicide case.That 24 yr boy was also a bright Engineer from VJTI. How can brilliant people take such drastic steps?


People are dying of brain haemorrhage due to lot of stress. Youngster below age 30 suffering from pressure on heart. Even dying by heart attack. It shows how the pace of life is killing youth at prime time.


It's very important to have friendly relationships with your children,when they enter in adulthood.As they need maximum emotional support during their early twenties. Rather than cursing the new generation you should try to understand them,guide them. Because even if you have faith in your up-bringing, friend circle and peer pressure plays vital role in their life. 'Move on' and 'live-life fullest' philosophies have been misinterpreted by youth.Materialism has become Mantra of coolness and Volatile relationships has become fashion. Mental stability is missing behind the fast-money ambition.This is not only applicable to youth in Metro cities.Second tier cities shows the same trend.




Youth energies if channelized properly,can make wonders. So there is really a requirement of good social science tools which can be used to educate youth about humanity & spirituality. So that they can handle their emotions,mental pressures,passions etc. There are many ways to stop such 'meaningless deaths' & prevent other youngster from taking such terrible steps.


Just imagine,how could have Malini's parents felt when they learned about her suicide for the first time. Ahhh..it's really painful. Our sympathy for them.


Please pray for Malini Murmu's soul !!

Few lines for everyone

If you fall in love 2 times in your life

always select the second one.

Because

you 1st love was real 

but 

your second love is not real

so if there is no real love there will be no real pain.

Parenting | The Teenager Love

The teenage loves is growing rapidly among the teenagers children around the world, its because the influences of the modern life and impact of the romantic movies.Most of the teen ages boys and girls think that they are made for each other they are in love and when their parents try to make them understand they feel that their parents are intrupting between their life they feel like their parents are the biggest enemy. The children not knowing that its putting bad effect on their studies & and disturbing their pleasant life of their own.
At this time parents should not take strong action or forcefully action or any hurting words.

Teens at the age 14 15 16 17 18 19 don,t care about the reality of life , they want to live the life what they dreams. Parents should know one thing that at this age the children generally gets attract to opposite sex which they feel themselves that its love but nope its not.
in this condition parents generally loose their patience and starts to scold their children by locking them in room, snatching cellphone, computers, internet etc, threatening their friends that not to talk with her/him , please don't do such things i request to parents, because such things increase the vulnerability in their mind, they starts to think differently like killing themselves, hurting themselves escaping from home etc etc.
Tell your children then don't take any further actions until they grow up don't be so exited give some time to grow the love. Its have full rights to choose their soul mate,
Be positive with your arguments, don't force directly to your child that stop talking or meeting with that guy/girl, the one question will always arise in their mind is "WHY?" . Try to make them understand in pleasant way about the dreams and realty of life, make them understand whats the right time , its better to be like a friend with your child this will make them frank to share everything with their parents.

one things should notice everyone that a real stable relationship needs a lots of caring, understanding, compromising more than any dreams or movie story, that everyone can't bear its responsibility and due to this today's most of the knots of  relationship are breaking. So children please first of all see what you are and how much capable you are for a relationship, how much patience and understandably you have? then only go for a relation. I recommend you that don't get in love until you are 20, be friends with whom you like let your bonds be more strong when the perfect time will come for commitment , an inner desire will tell you that its the perfect time. I know this paragraph will feel someone like overwriting but its the real truth of life. 

Love Purifies You

Love is the finest of all emotions; it is also the most powerful. You can easily hide your thoughts,  feelings, however are more difficulty to hide. When you look at a person's eyes, you can make out his feelings . It is not the same with thoughts, if someone is scheming or conspiring you won't able to make that out.
But love can neither be fully hidden nor expressed. The more you try to hide it, the more apparent it becomes. Love express it itself in so many ways. You don't have to tell anybody you love him: your walk, your work, your talk, your look  will all convey the love. Love oozes out of your very presence.

Impact
one who has attained the fullness of love, his throat chokes , and joy manifests itself in all his action. He is unable to speak properly because love cannot be expressed in words. Love has a magnetic impact on everybody around . If you have attained the fullness of love, then everyone will feel secure in your company, in your presence.Who ever comes close to you, will all feel at home, comfortable like coming to mother.

Cleansing power
 your love has the power to purify everything around you.  The line says " Panthavarodha romanchashrubhih parasparam lapramanah pavayanti kulani prithvim cha"  The tears of love purify families, traditions, towns and villages, they purify this earth. Even places where some lover spent his life longing for God become pilgrimage centers.
One who is filled with love , who sheds tears of gratitude , his very presence is enjoyed by those who have crossed over. When your life is blossoming in love, it brings gear comfort, great relief and great joy.
The power of love transcends worlds. When you meditate or engage in any spiritual practice, a portion of the merits goes to upor ancestors, it is clearing a debt, giving or sharing good things that you have . in all religions, when someone departs, there in a memorial service.  When you pray for the departed soul; your prayer, your love , touches the other world. so when you mediate  remember, you are not mediating just for yourself but for this world as well as the unseen world.